As a professional organizer who worked on the Tiffany episode of Hoarders, season 13, filmed in New Berlin, near Milwaukee, Wisconsin and now streaming on Netflix, I am frequently asked about the challenges of clearing out hoarded homes when working with clients who have Hoarding Disorder (HD). In this blog post, I will share valuable insights and strategies from the episode, along with my behind-the-scenes knowledge as one of the organizers. Join me as we explore three key strategies for effectively clearing hoarded homes and supporting individuals with hoarding behavior.
Strategy 1: Doing the Mental Work First
Clearing a lifetime of clutter, and particularly multiple generations of clutter as seen in Tiffany’s house, is a daunting task with a low success rate. To tackle this, it is crucial to start by doing the essential mental work. This step involves preparing your mind, heart, and soul for the letting go process. By acknowledging the emotional significance of items while prioritizing emotional well-being, individuals can put their health and safety, as well as that of their family, above the acquisition and storage of stuff. This insight, as demonstrated by Tiffany’s experience and her participation in Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT), can be life-changing and significantly improve the clear-out process.
Strategy 2: Selecting Must-Keep Items or Categories
The second strategy focuses on giving yourself permission to retain a select number of items or categories with particular importance or value. Before diving into the minutiae of the clean-out process, it is essential to identify these “must-keep” items. They can be family heirlooms, important documents, or frequently used essential items. As a Professional Organizer, one effective technique is to provide low adhesive painters tape to clients, allowing them to tag their keep items. This simple and inexpensive tool not only empowers individuals but also builds trust during the clear-out process.
Strategy 3: Patience and Focusing on Larger Categories
The third strategy emphasizes the importance of patience when dealing with emotionally charged or time-consuming items. It is perfectly okay to delay decisions, especially for legal and financial documents, photos, letters, sentimental items, or collections of small things. Instead of treating each item individually, focus on larger categories or collections that can be decided upon in one conversation. Developing an exit strategy is crucial for smoother progress. Tiffany’s experience highlights the significance of this strategy, where she made blanket decisions, such as letting books leave her home without reviewing each one, allowing the crew to have discretionary power during the process.
Final Thoughts:
Clearing out a hoarded home is undoubtedly challenging, but with the right strategies and insights, it can be accomplished successfully. By addressing the mental aspects, giving yourself permission to retain important items, and practicing patience while focusing on larger categories, you can create a more organized and clutter-free environment. If you’re currently working on a hoard-clearing project with a friend or family member, get my Tackle the Hoard course HERE for lots of time-saving strategies and resources.
Together, let’s create a life with less clutter, making space for the things that truly matter.
Thank you for reading, and until next time!
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Katherine Lawrence, Professional Organizer and Coach